sbf seeking....

....is it too much to ask for a single black man to not have any children? seriously? i mean it seems like it's becoming more common these days for men who are single and never married to have a gang of kids. why!!!! that's all i want to know. i'm not being judgmental but dayum, if i don't have any kids is it too much to ask for someone that i'm interested in dating or developing a relationship with to NOT have kids? is that selfish of me? am i wrong for thinking "i have no kids, so you shouldn't either?" i know, i know, by placing this limitation on someone i may be bypassing a good man. i realize that things happen and i don't discount that fact, but this is just my opinion and it's so aggravating sometimes.