15 February 2008

update...

please update your links, i've moved over to wordpress.com

http://incognito22.wordpress.com/

14 February 2008

<3...

Happy Valentines Day!!


i received valentines wishes from friends and sorors and the two people i wanted to get wishes from most of all. hope you all had a great day!!

11 February 2008

so...

after reading yesterday's post i feel like a complete brat! but i'm over it, i can't help it that i usually get what i want. it's just there are a few things in my life that i want right now and that's just not happening.

anyhoo...i'm going to MEXICO!!!! i still have to get my passport and confirm reservations at the spa we'll be staying at but my friend found a flight to cancun for under $280 and i got my ticket a few minutes ago. i'm excited. let's hope this trip goes better than the nyc trip i took with this person. i mean i love her, but let's just say i got very agitated very easily. i'm sure it'll be fun. now i really need that pt job, lol for spending money.

10 February 2008

just once...

i want what i want, when i want it and how i want it. i don't want to have to wait. i'm not sure what the issue is with me today but i get so freakin' tired of being the patient, nice person. the only thing being nice and patient ever gets you is nothing! nada! zero!

i look around and it seems that everyone else always get what they want. all the time. maybe they go for it and just take a chance. i'm not at that point yet, where i can just throw caution to the wind. my personality doesn't even work like that. but if i'm not willing to take a chance, can i really complain about not getting what i want?

i just wanna scream right now. when am i'm going to get what i want? when is it going to be my turn? *sigh*

weekend recap...

it was a great weekend! friday i had a chance to hang out with sorors at the unc-charlotte step show where the sorors of winthrop university took 1st place (great show). there were only two sororities stepping, so i guess it was a win/win situation no matter how you look at it. the alphas and kappas took first and second place respectively.

although i left work late and got to the show late it was all good. some people wanted to show their...hmm, what's that work puffy used? "bitchassedness" yeah, that's it. acting like they don't know and just plain stupid. it's so sad to see how we treat each other sometimes over petty stuff.

afterwards we went to eat at applebees and i thought it would have just been sorors but we were joined by the some of the members of the charlotte chapter of iota phi theta. that was interesting to say the least. but it definitely a hilarious evening. let me just say that i can be a little clueless when it comes to men...then again, my initial instincts are usually proven right.

saturday i had another meeting and let me just say, i had to suppress laughter almost during the entire meeting. the funniest thing i heard was "i don't go to funeral homes, the spirits attach themselves to me and follow me out..." i am lmao right now just thinking of that. the stupidest thing i heard "what kind of ginger snap cookies are these? they're too hard..." these two ignorant statements (and it wasn't just limited to these two) all came from the same stupid azz person. thank goodness i don't have to like this person, i will tolerate her but um, yeah, my patience and tolerance level are getting lower by the minute.

so it sunday and the biggest thing i have to do is clean my apt. i have to cook as well, but i found this recipe on an email from discovery fitness for turkey burgers where instead of buns you eat them on wheat english muffins. i did this thursday after work and they were yummy, so i think i'll try it again today along with a nice salad.

07 February 2008

i'on know but...

that isht just don't sound right to me. i read something a while ago that i started thinking about recently so i decided to blog about it. i'm not the most religious person, i mean i will admit that i don't know everything about the word. but i do know the difference between right, wrong, and oh hell naw.

someone was talking about a ministry and believed this was their calling. i mean that would be all fine and dandy, but shouldn't you be following the right path and shouldn't G-O-D put that calling on your heart first? like i said, i'm not an expert or authority so it could be me that's wrong. and....what makes you think that G-O-D would do that especially considering the way you're living? i'm not judging, just asking questions. and...in any ministry shouldn't you be an example of what to strive for? again, just saying.

folks really need to stop fixing the word to go along with their own personal agenda. right is right and wrong is wrong. don't try to fix it so everything looks brand new, 'cause it aint.