04 December 2007

let's just be friends - the remix...

so the more i think about it, the more i realize that i want to (and can) be friends. i was upset a few posts back, but i've thought about it and contemplated what i really wanted and for right now that's it. this person is dealing with a lot of issues right now and a relationship is probably not going to a top priority. as someone whose never dated much, i am looking forward to really getting out there & exploring my options. and so, if i do just that and then realize this person (and subsequently a relationship) is what's best at least i won't be resentful and always thinking "what if".

3 comments:

Nina MM said...

Be friends on your own terms though. Don't settle just cuz it ain't working out. If you wanted more, and you just takin' a friendship until you can get that more? It ain't gon' work.

melette said...

You are better than me.

K. said...

if you were to consider this person's actions, would they be those of a true friend? i know that sometimes when we stop and think about it, we realize that we wouldn't accept certain behavior from a so-called friend, so we wonder why should we accept them from a man.