who you're attracted to. i've heard that statement so many times before on tv, from family members, from some friends - especially as it relates to race and interracial dating and marriage.
i've always said that i love black men, because i do but what if i meet someone who's not black but has great qualities? what if this man respected me and himself, was accomplished, smart, had a nice sense of humor, was caring...etc, etc, etc? how could i pass up someone like that just because they're a different race? would i be a fool to not see where things could go? or just keep waiting for a brotha to come along with those qualities? i do believe there are brothas out there with those qualities but waiting for someone who may never come along vs. some who is there now doesn't make sense.
just something i was thinking about earlier today.
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I think it depends on what you need. You have to decide if waiting for a black man to come along is going to be worth missing this chance with this other person.
I don't think any human being should place themselves inside of a proverbial box.
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